Why I Can't Wait to Get Married

So..... I have a confession to make.

I've been a little..... bridezilla-ish. 

It's not like I planned, but apparently I am so caught up with not going over budget and getting stressed about venues, guest lists, and save-the-dates that I'm forgetting about focusing on the reasons I can't wait to marry my boo thang.

I really thought wedding planning was the fun part of being engaged.

IT'S NOT.

So here goes. This is my list to help me refocus my energies into making my relationship awesome, keeping everyone around me happy, and reminding my fiancé why he wants to marry me.

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Reasons I want to get married

Kevin's hott, and I'm totally in love with him.

(Engagement pics to follow, you WON'T be disappointed!)

I'm going to be REALLY old in April, (like, 24), so I better get married right away so I'm not an old maid, also known as "Small-town-syndrome".

Everyone gets married. And lives happily ever after. Right?

I don't really kinda never maybe absolutely want to have children. I don't wanna!! Definitely.

(My feelings about children will change. Right?)

I want to wear a pretty dress. (And look super skinny in it.)

I want to go on a honeymoon. Hello, road-tripping with a boy!! (And staying overnight in a *gasp* hotel room!)

I want people to toast to me us and tell me us how great I we look and how happy I'll we'll be.

I love dancing. (That's a valid reason, right?)

I really want to rub it in everyone's faces how happy we'll be and how great we look together. I really want everyone to realize how much I love Kevin and how I can't wait to spend my life getting to know him even better. I love all of his weird quirks and annoying statements, and his gymnast-like ability to put his foot in his mouth while still continuing to talk. Wow. SO impressive!

I really can't wait to do all the things married people do. I love Kevin. I want to sit in front of the TV watching LMN movies and figuring out how we'd hide the body. I want to eat popcorn and cry during the most ridiculous romantic movie while he's waiting for the zombies that I told him would show up "sometime real soon". I want to raise a family with him and cry when they turn out to be mini-Kevins. (Omg.... that is terrifying. Hopefully, they don't inherit the trouble-making/finding gene. LOL!)

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This post was inspired by a really cute blog (Stellar Piece) that is written by a friend & his gf. I think when you get engaged, you lose some of that fun & carefree feeling about your relationship. It becomes very permanent, and that's scary. I'm making it a goal to focus on the little things and stay positive, even when wedding planning makes me want to scream. 

Thanks for your love and support in this somewhat trying time.... I will start putting up some funny stories about Kev & myself so you can laugh along with me in my fight to stay sane and have fun wedding planning!

Thanks,

Kelly totally-calm-bride-to-be Davis