Friday, February 21, 2014

Say, "We just bought a house!"


If you’re reading this, congratulations! You’re about to see some photos of our new home! If you read my last post {You can catch up here},  I mentioned when we first bought our home and began getting it move-in  ready that I wanted to take photos of the whole process: What it looked  like online, our first time seeing it, how much we needed to do (a lot) and most of all, what it looked like bare and waiting for us to fill it up with memories!


My good friend, a fellow blogger and fabulous photographer Christina reached out and was intrigued by the idea. I had previously looked on Pinterest for ideas, but there wasn’t anything that really caught my eye; probably because no one thinks to take photos of their new home, or  people move in with each other, or a multitude of other possibilities. During a conversation creative Christina and I had, we realized there are really only 2 times you’ll see your home empty:

{When you’ve just bought it, and are getting ready to move in and start your life}
{When you’re moving out, and your memories are all packed up for a new adventure}

As you probably already know, I’m a major sentimental weirdo. On an emotional scale from 1 to 10, I’m a 99. I chalk that up to a combined “love language” of words of affirmation and gift giving. There are two things I hold in high regard: things and words.

Because of this, I am very sentimental and thankful for the amazing technology at our fingertips. Think about it. My (very future) children will be able to read what I’m writing now and not have to worry about a diary that gets lost or ruined by the elements. (Hopefully we still have internet when I have kids, that would be a bummer.) Now, I love a handwritten note, but I
think you catch my drift.
(Side note, I strongly believe in cursive and handwritten checks and thank you notes, they are an art form my kids will learn.)

I want to show my future family what we looked like, how we thought and  acted, what our lives were like. That’s important to me. The thought of showing our home as it was when we were engaged and just starting out makes me really appreciate how far we’ve come as a couple.

Christina and I talked for a while about the vision behind the home shoot and the ideas quickly took shape. She’s really talented. Christina is a “natural light photographer” and I have become familiar with her work, because when I’m scrolling through Facebook or Instagram, I can instantly tell which photos are hers because she’s got such a unique style. I love it.

She uses light and natural elements to bring out the whole idea for the shoot, which was almost a mix of starting fresh, new beginnings, and starting almost from scratch.

Christina owns a company called Christina Z Photography, and I highly recommend checking it out. Could we have taken photos ourselves? Yes. Would they have turned out any where near as good as the photos I’m about to show you?

NO.

Here are a few reasons I wanted to have Christina shoot our new home:

Vision
Christina was able to take what I described (still don’t know how you understood what I wanted because I know my ideas were all over the place…. just proves your talent!) and turn it into a real theme and idea for the shoot. I’d never be able to do that!

Direction

There’s a reason I’ve never directed a Hollywood film, let alone a photo shoot. (Ok, there are a bunch of reasons, but I digress.) If I were the one deciding what shots to capture, what angles to shoot from, how to pose, it would have been a nightmare. I was
so relieved when she came with ideas! She told us how to pose, where to sit, what looked best, etc.

Equipment
Girl has all the right equipment! Not a pick up line… she’s professional. I’m always amazed when there’s a second lens. I’m over there fiddling with my digital camera and she’s like, Let me switch to my W47 extra wide scope Tobiashi secret formula model-maker lens.
(Disclaimer, those terms were made up and totally invented by me, I don’t really think that’s a lens model, but who knows.)

Experience
Um, check out her blog/website/Facebook/Instagram (She’s on Pinterest too…). Nuff said.

Results
SHE TOTALLY DELIVERED. When I saw the first couple of photos on her blog, and a sneak peek on Facebook, I was BLOWN AWAY. (The blog post she wrote about us is really cute, and she does it for every shoot. She talks about the people she photographs and uses information you give her from a questionnaire after the experience to really build your story.)

We just loved Christina. She’s professional but really funny, very quick to give advice and direction, and is constantly throwing out ideas and making it seem like the most natural thing in the world. Christina, THANK YOU SO MUCH for giving us this opportunity and we look forward to using you down the road for more special announcements, when those days finally arrive! (You’ll still be in business in 2095 when we move to the space station, I assume?)

If you’re interested in having your own special shoot, contact her today. (Tell her I sent you, duh.) She specializes in senior portraits, families, weddings and engagement sessions, special occasions like announcing that you have a watermelon in your belly (Sorry, I’m still thirteen), and a multitude of other topics. She’s obviously open to new ideas and welcomes crazy clients, because that’s the only way I’m able to write this blog! Check out a few of my favorite photos below, thanks  for reading and please pay this sweet girl a visit and tell her what you think!

ChristinaZPhotography@gmail.com

(941) 812-5307








There are many other photos, but I wanted to share my absolute favorites with you, my favorite readers! I plan on doing a before and after post in the near future, since we are almost at that point. I have to look through my (unprofessional) photos from the beginning and compile them, so stay tuned! Thanks for reading! 

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

45 Days and Counting!


You may be wondering why I haven’t posted here in a while, and there are four very wonderful reasons, which I will list below right…. now.


1
Kevin and I have been going to pre-marital counseling through our church. A lot of churches require it, but I don’t know of many of my friends who have gone through the process. Maybe because it’s not usually talked about as it is kind of a private matter. However, I’m just such a fan that I’d recommend it to all newly engaged or newly wed couples!

It’s been a fun and sometimes intense process where we sit down with a married couple and talk about everything: our personalities, how we communicate, how soon we want to start a family (hint: NOT soon), etc. It’s been awesome because it’s started a lot of amazing conversations, and we’ve grown even stronger as a couple.

Here’s a (kind of/not really) funny Q&A from our recent sessions:

Q: “Kevin, what made you fall in love with Kelly?”
A. (Kevin) “Um, I don’t know, her sarcasm?” (Yes, he phrased it as a question…) “Um, her family is really nice…” (Wow, thanks, babe!).

2
It’s been really easy to get caught up in everything else and then I have that moment where I say, “Wait, I have HOW many days until the wedding? Yikes, I should probably do something about that….” It’s hard to focus on wedding planning when you’re both still new to your jobs, have a house that needed a lot of work, and all the other craziness of being a broke twenty-something! I am blessed with a great support staff, so I’m not really concerned. At this point, my attitude is kind of - I’ve got the guy, the ring and the dress… So what else is there? (That’s a rhetorical question, please don’t try to rescue me from my little bubble!)

3
OUR HOUSE IS AWESOME!
Let me be more specific. I have been waiting to show you lovely readers photos of our house for months! I had an amazing opportunity pop up, and before I start on a completely off-topic but still awesome rant about blogging and how fantastic it is, I posted about our house and how I really wanted to take photos of the before and after process.

My AMAZING and extremely talented photographer friend (Christina of Christina Z Photography) reached out about this wacky idea, and we embarked on the most amazing experience of photographing Kevin and I in our new and very bare home. It’s going to be amazing to look back on it all and see how we dressed, what we looked like and how awesome our house was! What a great memory!

(That post is going up VERY soon, I’m going to include photos from the before and after so you can see not only Christina’s trademark talent, but also our journey of becoming homeowners!)

We have done A LOT of work.
(IF Kevin actually read this, he’d say, “We? Is there a mouse in your pocket?” and then joke about how little I’ve actually done. Well, I’m sorry that I don’t have a socket wrench set or extensive knowledge of plumbing and home repair - I mean, what is that, a drainpipe slip knot? Flo from Progressive! Anyone? Anyone? - but I DID pick out the paint colors, curtains, etc.

Kevin’s parents have been amazing, showing their love through their actions - cleaning, painting, and basically doing everything in their power to help get our house ready. My dad was of course helpful because unlike me, he’s gifted in pretty much every avenue of manly-man activities (Thanks for hooking up the ceiling fans so Kevin didn’t electrocute himself!) and of course my mom is a saint, constantly backing me up as I whine, complain and bounce off ideas. We are SO LUCKY to have the amazing parents we do! (Remember that as I hand you this card for our registry, I want the blue KitchenAid mixer. Thanks.) ;)

I’m kidding. I’d actually take any color. I’m not picky.
4
Speaking of my KitchenAid… registering for gifts is literally, single-handedly the FUNNEST thing we’ve done since the engagement. We both went into the process thinking it would be a quick 45 minute jam sesh where we tell them we don’t need fine china and that it would be super intense and weird. WRONG. It was AWESOME. Kevin was the superstar of the day, not kidding. We had the most amazing lady from Bed, Bath & Beyond help us out, and THREE HOURS later, we had successfully registered, and by we, I mean Kevin. He was having so much fun. I don’t even know half of the stuff he registered for… so opening presents will be a real treat!
“OH EM GEE, I absolutely adore these crystal encrusted salad tongs with matching towel warmer so I can feel like I’m at Lee Roy Selmons with the Queen! Do you have the gift receipt?”

(Actually, that sounds pretty awesome, so I now want that too.) 

Kevin's obvious joy during the registering process. I think he misunderstood that registering just means you're giving people suggestions of what you'd like, but I'm beginning to realize he thinks we are automatically receiving all of these (somewhat ridiculous but totally awesome) items, LOL.

I’ve got to go back to sending out invites, planning the bridal shower, working at my awesome job as well as posting that blog about our house! Can’t wait for you to see! Thanks for reading, I adore each and every one of you!! 

(Shout-out to my newest blogging bff, Carly! You can see her awesome and hysterical blog here… she’s great! Just dipping those little toesies into the blogging waters. I swear, it’s addicting! She’s the reason that motherhood doesn’t look like it’s completely awful… more funny stories please!!)  

On a sappier note... Happy (belated) Valentines day! I was able to grab a quick v-day dinner with my sweet pea during a break from work!


-Kelly & Kevin